Top 10: Ways To Become A Better Man

By: David DeAngelo

 

One of the biggest mistakes guys make is being blind to the fact that “the man” you are has a bigger impact on your success with women than anything else. It’s not pickup lines or fancy clothes or losing a few pounds. Who you really are -- on the inside -- plays a bigger role in your dating life than any of those superficial fixes.

Check out these 10 tips on ways to become a better man -- the kind of man women are naturally attracted to.  

 

Learn to see little cues that tell you the “social status” of people around you. For example, a person of high status may seem a bit distracted when he’s talking to someone, while a person of lower status will be giving him 100% of this attention. Or, it’ll be clear to you who has the higher status when you see a man and a woman out on a date and the woman is standing there with her arms crossed and the man has open body language and is smiling.

Look at groups of people and try to see who has the status. Why? Because when you go into a situation where group dynamics are happening, you’re going to want to quickly identify who the person of high status is -- the person with the most power -- and connect with them. You’ll also want to behave like a person of high status, so when you’re communicating with important people they don’t simply blow you off.